Benefits Overhaul 2012: Part 6 – Paternity gap

The option to take additional paternity leave has not been taken up by as many fathers as was hoped, but few employers make this option affordable for male staff. How can organisations get ahead on this and stand out as an employer of choice?

Most British employers would like to think they are family-friendly, with many offering above and beyond the statutory requirements when it comes to paid maternity leave. When additional paternity leave (APL) came into effect in April 2011, giving working fathers the right to apply for 26 additional weeks’ paternity leave, many employers baulked at the cost and fathers simply felt that they could not afford to take it.

Proposals announced by the Government last year to further overhaul parental leave policies – by enabling parents to share leave to a certain extent – have highlighted the inequalities between what is offered to new mothers and new fathers.

Many European countries already offer substantial leave periods to fathers as well as mothers, and some also offer the option to share the leave period or take some of it together. In Iceland, for example, paternity leave rights are absolutely equal to those of the mother, while in Sweden parents are entitled to a total of 480 days’ paid leave per child, with both mothers and fathers entitled and encouraged to share the leave.

Research from BT and the Employers Network for Equality and Inclusion (ENEI) has found that almost half of fathers now do either a majority or an equal share of childcare, yet two-thirds (67%) do not believe that their employer supports this with sufficiently family-friendly policies. Also, with many employers only offering the statutory two weeks’ leave, for which they are not even obliged to offer full pay, a huge number of families cannot afford for the father to take a substantial amount of time off.

In fact, a report last year by the Department for Work and Pensions found that 40% of new fathers failed to take up paternity leave because they couldn’t afford to.

Enhanced paternity benefits

Organisations that opt to offer enhanced paternity benefits will position themselves as innovative employers, so this is a good time to revise your parental leave policies to reflect fathers’ changing role in childcare and to stand out as a family-friendly organisation. “No doubt employers are feeling the squeeze and conversations around enhancing paternity leave are more complicated than those around other benefits,” adds Wilmott. “But there is definitely a growing recognition that men are playing a more active role in parenting young children. If you are looking to attract or retain talent it will be seen as a competitive advantage to offer an enhanced paternity benefit.”

It also pays to view your overall benefits package – from including family on your group income protection policies to enhancing maternity and paternity pay – as a means of engaging staff and making it more financially attractive to spend time with their family. Wilmott continues: “Go beyond ticking the box and offer something of value. If you know it’s going to be welcome to all staff, play around with the qualifying criteria to make it more affordable; perhaps enhance paternity after two years’ service as a way of rewarding loyalty and boosting engagement,” he says.

“Where people are more satisfied with their work/life balance we see a greater discretionary effort,” he adds. “Start at the top with progressive chief executives, who are not afraid to use these benefits themselves. Men feel that it’s not culturally acceptable to take paternity leave under a ‘command and control’ leadership, but its provision forms an important part of becoming a high performing organisation.” At Ikea, for example, a previous managing director took six weeks off when his wife had a baby, by combining his paternity leave with holiday. “That shows that it’s OK for the MD to be out of the business for six weeks to focus on his family, and that he trusts people around him to run the business while he spends time with his family,” says Cathy Donnelly, UK and Ireland HR director at the retailer.

If you need to build a business case for enhanced paternity leave, consider using data from exit interviews to find out whether or not staff want more flexibility. Also look at absence levels – in some cases, staff may be taking time off for family commitments that they feel they don’t have the flexibility to cope with within their existing rights.

Make it fair

One reason to consider enhancing parental benefits for fathers is the question of fairness, particularly if you already offer enhanced maternity pay to mothers. According to the charity Working Families, two out of three employers offering APL plan to pay fathers only the statutory paternity pay (£128.73 per week) or 90% of the employee’s average weekly earnings (whichever is lower) during the extended period, even though 65% of these offer enhanced maternity pay for the equivalent weeks that a female is on maternity leave. Almost 20% of employers surveyed by the charity last year plan to pay fathers six weeks at full pay when they take APL. The Government’s guidance is that they do not need to, but thankfully employers are increasingly taking on board how it must feel to be a male employee getting the statutory minimum when they look across the desk and see a woman getting full pay for six months.

Elizabeth Gardiner, parliamentary and policy officer at Working Families, says: “If you’re still enhancing a mother’s leave at 26 weeks, is it fair to the father to not be entitled to the same level of benefit? The Government says there is no legal obligation for employers to match maternal and paternal benefits, but it’s not been tested yet. Employers need to look at their workforce in the round. If you support mothers to encourage them back to work, you should support fathers as well.”

She adds that men really value paternity leave, but because it is badly paid they may be unlikely to take it for the extended period. “More and more fathers are taking paternity leave so it’s a benefit employers should pay more attention to. Look at how you treat fathers and compare it to what you offer returning mothers. Do you offer them tax relief on childcare vouchers?” she asks. The ENEI Fathers at Work Survey (see box) found that employers rarely matched the care they gave returning mothers with that for fathers. She continues: “There was a sense that men are everywhere but fathers are invisible. You may have senior management on board with a great policy but it may be blocked at line manager level. There’s a shortage of training around these issues, but as the economy picks up, employers that offer this level of flexibility will be the ones keeping their skilled staff.”

Make it flexible

Larger organisations are, in general, more likely to provide family-friendly policies because they have greater financial resources. Around 44% of larger employers provide more than the legal minimum paternity pay, compared with 9% of small employers according to the CIPD.

Santander offers full pay to employees on paternity leave, explains Claire Osborn, HR policy manager: “We also aim to offer our staff maximum flexibility to use other types of leave in conjunction with paternity, with options such as discretionary special leave, holiday and compressed days working, able to be combined with paternity leave to maximise the time they are able to spend with their new family.

“Frequently, in this scenario, the employee is male and we feel that they should be given additional support when most of the focus is generally placed on the woman in this situation.”

Take-up of paternity leave at the company remains low, but new fathers benefit from a range of flexible working options, which Osborn believes they value more. “This is one facility which is most likely to be taken up by new fathers. We encourage our managers to have regular conversations with employees in such a position to ensure that they are aware of the options open to them. We appreciate that being a new parent can be difficult, due to sleep deprivation and added responsibilities and pressures, so we do everything in our power on a case-by-case basis to ensure that every employee benefitting from our paternity leave benefit is happy with the package.”

BT also offers two weeks’ full pay and an option to take another two weeks at half pay. The company also offers APL for 26 weeks at statutory rates beyond the fourth week. BT finds that the vast majority of new fathers take the first two weeks leave, but it is access to a full portfolio of flexible working policies, including home-based and term-time working, that enables many fathers at BT to assume the primary carer role when they start a family.

Caroline Waters, director of people and policy at BT, says: “In our research with ENEI, 87% of dads said they wanted their employers to help them meet their parental responsibilities, but the majority of employers don’t seem to have got their heads around this yet. The same research shows that nearly half of all dads would change employers for more flexibility.

“So many of our dads feel relieved to be ‘out’ in the workplace: able to ask for time off, not just to attend school plays and sports days, but also to enable them to contribute to these events. Modern fathers aren’t content with a tokenistic approach, and they want to take a proactive role in their children’s lives.

“Lots of employers produce rafts of information for new mums but fail to match this with the same quality of information for dads,” she adds. “We’ve found that unless you put in place things to support fathers you run the risk of losing them at a time when you’ve made a significant investment in their training and when they have built deep relationships with customers.”

“Taking paternity leave is easier for fathers where employers already have family-friendly arrangements in place,” says Gardiner. “There are a number of options for employers who are not able to offer enhanced paternity pay. They could remind fathers that they have the right to request flexible working, offer flexibility on return from paternity leave, and inform them about APL. These will help demonstrate they are family-friendly employers and committed to retaining fathers’ as much as mothers’ skills.”

Dads want more

Research from BT and the ENEI shows that many employers fall short of offering fathers the support they need. The findings reveal that while one father in two (49%) says that they do the majority or an equal share of the childcare, two-thirds (67%) don’t think their employers have sufficient family-friendly policies. While more than half (52%) of dads say that they do manage to prioritise their family life, more than one-third (35%) now work more than ever, which means they often aren’t able to be as involved in family life as they would like to be. The study also revealed that nearly nine fathers out of 10 (87%) want their employer to do more to help them with their parenting responsibilities: 49% want to be able to work flexibly; 21% want to be able to take paternity leave; 25% want their employer to be more understanding of the demands of fatherhood; 38% would like support with child care; and 46% would consider changing their employer for greater flexibility. Sign up to our weekly round-up of HR news and guidance Receive the Personnel Today Direct e-newsletter every Wednesday Email(Required) OptOut From time to time, we will send you emails about selected products, events and services from Personnel Today and OHW+ - but you can choose to opt-out at any time. If you do not wish to receive these emails, please tick this box. Comments This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. Δ Denise Keating, CEO of ENEI, says: “True gender equality will only happen when it is not only socially and culturally acceptable, but actually expected that fathers will play an equal part in the care and upbringing of their children. If employers do not move with the times and proactively enable this, there is a risk of disengagement, loss of performance, or even worse, a perception of discrimination against the male workforce.”